Don’t Let Your Christmas Be Lonely

Many people ask “What Do the Lonely Do At Christmas.” Well, here are some tips to help you survive during the holidays. Click this link here:

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Is Your Mate a Non Nudist?

Is Your Mate a Non Nudist? Do they cringe at the thought of living clothes free? Do they have any hang ups about their body image?

This is a question for many of us that date, court, or are married to a non nudist partner. It can be a nudist party pooper, but it doesn’t have to be.  Hopefully you can advise your non nudist partner as to what nudism is and isn’t and the benefits of being a naturist or a nudist.

I have had my share of non nude partners. Let me tell you, trying to get them to even try nudism was a hard, yet possible task. My ex “JJ,” new that I was a nudist and he was very curious yet shy. I did explain to him what nudism is and isn’t.

The first thing to discuss about nudism is to understand that nudism isn’t about sex. It is about living free, accepting your body for how it is made, and doing things that you would normally do, but in the nude.  Explaining this simple concept to a non nudist will set their minds free. It will allow them to understand that there is life and freedom being naked.

The key is not to force them into or beat them upside the head over it.  Advise them to take little baby steps. If they aren’t comfortable and they don’t want to do it, then don’t force them. The choice will ultimately be theirs to make.




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I’m Transgender, Not Desperate - the largest nudist personals site! – the largest nudist personals site!


So tonight, I went on a date for the first time since my break up with my ex, the jackass, in September.  The person I went out with, we’ll refer to as “Ced.”  This is very important as I am a pre-op transwoman, Hence the name change of the blog, and I’m also HIV positive.

Ced and I have known each other for a couple years and we have been great friends. We support each other in ministry and we are both nudists.  Ced is very well educated on HIV and Transgender live, him being a Cis gender male.  Well, since he and I have made a deeper connection, there has been some sort of a enigmatic attraction to this Black Trans Nudist!!!

Tonight we went to a local restaurant and we talked about our likes, experiences in dating, and me being transgender and the challenges I’ve often faced as a transwoman.  One of the topics being that people think that because I’m transgender, that I am desperate and that I should only be dated out of charity or that no one will love me as a transwoman.

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Back in the Dating Game


    Many of you can remember when I went through the crazy break up this past August. It was messy and crazy indeed. Not to mention that my ex is still watching me via social media and what not.  However I remained unbothered. I really don’t want his trifling ass back!!!

   In other news, I’m back in the dating game. Yes, I am poly-amorous, which means I can have several intimate not necessarily sexual relationships with the consent and knowledge of partners involved. Yes I have one partner, however I am looking for my one Main partner that I cater to, and make Number One.

  I have two potentials. However one actually lives closer to me than the other. I will be meeting on potential in Georgia for our first date.  He hit me up telling me how he really felt about me. Georgia Man and I have been friends for quite sometime even while I was dating the jackass that I disconnected with in August.  I have a great feeling about this one.

  After the last relationship I was in I have learned what I will and will not settle for. I also know what I will and will not tolerate. I am a valuable gem and I deserve to be treated as such. No one will cause my value to fall.

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The Black Male Nudist and Dating

  Hey Naked Family!!! As I sit back enjoying some Vodka and Cranberry, I’m thinking back on my date from last night. I, Caleel D. have embarked on a journey back into the dating scene.
  Last night, my date who I will call John and I went out to dinner and to see the Disney Motion Picture “Maleficent,” starring Angelina Jolie.  The movie was great and John was an excellent date. We ate dinner at a local restaurant called “CookOut,” we chatted and then we went to see “Maleficent” in which we both enjoyed.
  Later we came back to my place and we basically spent most of the weekend together. John came to rehearsal with me and he and I ate lunch together. John even called me to make sure that I had rested after rehearsal and our lunch date.
 John is a real gentleman and a great guy. We have plans to attend church together tomorrow.  Now, I’m not rushing things, but John is proving to be a great guy so far.  I just hope that it’s not one of those fronts to get these good done Debbie’s .
  I’m glad I’ve thrown myself back into the dating scene. I’m able to see what’s out there. I may have to kiss some frogs before I find my prince, but so be it. I refuse to be afraid of what dating holds. If someone can’t accept me for me, then that means I’m too good for them.
Love ya,

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Dating and The Black Male Nudist

   Recently, I decided to get back into the dating scene. Thus I created a Jack’d profile.  So far it has been dryer than a witch’s pussy in the Winter time.  However, Over the last couple weeks, I’ve been on a couple dates, however, one I’ve been warned about by family and friends and the other is “out, but I don’t tell everybody.”
  Now the first guy that my family and friends warned me he’s everything I want, but I know he isn’t good for me giving some things he’s indulged in. The second guy he’s cool, but he’s so damn secretive. I’m an out and proud Black Gay man and I refuse to go into the closet for somebody.  That isn’t a relationship. That’s a fucking mess. What is a guy like me to do?
  I guess I’ll give dating a try. I won’t let it exhaust me. I’ll just take life by the horns and make it do what the hell I’m gonna make it do.
I’m out,

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When Strays Come Back

  What is it about strays that keep them coming back when you’ve tried to get rid of them?
  A couple nights ago, I had a guy that attempted to date me a couple years ago, just popped back in my life. I was hoping that after me not talking to him or accepting his calls, he’d get the hint, however he called me from a new number.
  I picked up the phone for Stray Boy.
“Hello,” I said.
“Happy Thanksgiving,” Stray Boy replied. 
  We chatted for a good hour giving the fact that I’d been a little under the weather this week. As the conversation went from pleasantries to comedy, Stray Boy must’ve grew some balls because he went straight for the kill.
 Stray Boy said “Billy, I still want to be with you.”
 “Why all of the sudden the interest again, Stray” I asked.
 “I don’t know. You’ve been on my mind.”
I reminded him of why he wouldn’t date me: the fact that I was am a female impersonator. Stray expected me to quit being me in order to appease him.
 After telling him “Look, I’m not gonna change who I am just to have a mate.”
  He was still persistent, I ended the conversation, by saying I needed to call my brother.
  Sorry, but I can’t date a stray, especially if he can’t accept all of me. He doesn’t deserve me. You either accept all of me or get the hell out of my life.
Enjoy the strays below

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