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Single, Black, Male, Nudist

   Here’s my moment of truth: I’m a single, Black, Male, Nudist.  Many of you may ask “What seems to be the problem?” Well the fact that I’m a Black Man, a lot of people think that I’m hyper-sexual and that I use nudism as means to get sex, which is so far from the truth.  I happen to be a Black Man who loves being naked and being free.  By me being single, sometimes it is hard to network with others, especially couples.
  How is it hard? Some get the misconception that I’m trying to make social nudism into one big happy ass orgy.  The lie detector test determines that is a lie.  I’ve had some great experiences in my life as a nudist, but when it comes to heterosexual couples, it is perceived that I’m either trying to bed the husband or bed the wife or both. It is an unfortunate circumstance, but what better way to convey my feelings than to write about it.
  On the many Nudist Social Networking Sites, I’ve found that many people will state “No single nudists.” It gives the connotation that single, male or female nudists are lonely souls that are trying to sleep with your mate. That is not the case. We are just fellow nudists looking to network. We are not pervs looking for a date or a hot sexual romp.
  Could it be the many exhibitionists that hide under nudism and naturism in order to get the goods from both male and female? For those who don’t know an exhibitionist is someone who exposes themselves ie genitals, buttocks, breasts, or other parts of the body not normally exposed for sexual gratification, shock, or for the thrill of it. A Nudist however is one who prefers life without clothes, can perform everyday activities without getting all hot and bothered, and respects others while being nude or in the natural.  Exhibition and nudism have major differences. If I wanted to be an exhibitionist, I’d be streaking and making porn or flashing unsuspecting strangers.
  However, I’m a nudist…A person who prefers life without clothing  (in designated areas or in my own home or wherever it is legal).
  So why does being a single, male nudist automatically equate to me being a pervert.  Is it societal standards? A few rotten apples? Could being a single male nudist be a curse?
  Well I refuse to think it is a curse. Being single is a blessing. It has caused me to focus and prioritize my life as well as find out who Caleel is.  Being a single, male nudist is a part of life, just like being married or in a relationship.
  So far I haven’t been told I couldn’t visit my favorite resorts or nudist attractions due to my single status.  Let’s not even get into double standards.  By me being Gay the first thing some people say is that I’m after ding ding and booty….Ummm Baby, think again. I may be Gay, but I realize what being a nudist is all about.  Again it is unfortunate that some people have made it hard for Single, Gay, Male, Black Nudists, but I don’t fit the description of a pervert.  Now we are all sexual beings (no matter how chase you are). That’s how we were created, but just because a nudist is single, male, Black, and Gay there should be no discrimination.  What would one do if the tables were turned?  Thoughts anyone?
BMN

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Religion and Homosexuality Obviously don’t mix

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   Religion and people have been meshed together for centuries.  There are different beliefs and religions ie, Christianity, Agnostic, Islamic, Atheism, Wiccan, and various sects and denominations within each religion.  However religion can be downright ugly and down right evil.

  I myself, identify as a Christian. I also happen to be Gay.  I’ve been in many churches and left them because I was made to feel less than a person because I was gay. The crazy part is that the main person doing the Gay bashing was indeed an undercover lesbian herself.  
  Now correct me if I’m wrong, I never once read in the Bible where Jesus himself condemned the Gays. Granted we are under a “new covenant,” seeing as the Mosaic law did not do what it was sent out to do (and I’m paraphrasing) in terms of ones spirit.  Just like the religious bigots of Jesus’s time want to pick and choose we have those that do the same.  
  I was in a service one Sunday and a pastor commented stating “a man is a man and a woman is a woman. He wasn’t born like that.” I wanted to yell at the top of my lungs “how in the hell would you know? Did you choose to be straight?” However, I just overlooked his tirade and his need for attention and zoned out.  
  I wasn’t being disrespectful towards the man of God, but I just tuned him out. I can’t stand when preachers get up and call themselves condemning the Gays, but won’t condemn murders, child molesters, adulterers, thieves, and hypocrites, but they are quick to knock the Gays, Lesbians, and Transgenders down. I’ve learned that many of those that Gay bash are Gay or Homosexual themselves.
  Also with recent setbacks in America, especially with Mississippi passing the religious freedoms bill, which is slated to start Summer of 2014, allows religion to be used in healthcare treatment, restaurants, aiding those who are less fortunate, and increases discrimination especially against Gays.  In my honest opinion if anyone dare say they are a Christian and thinks that such laws are okay, then they are going against the teachings of Jesus…I’m just saying. So much hypocrisy.  If Jesus taught love, where is the love in not treating someone the way you want to be treated? How is discrimination showing love?  
  Didn’t America leave Britain to be come religiously free, but now we are all of a sudden oppressing people because of religion.? Girl, bye!!! This is a mess and these politicians know it.  I bet they will see the damage that the law will cause especially in their economy and the downfall of their businesses for turning people away.  Isn’t such law unconstitutional? For this to be the land of the free, a modern day slavery is surely being put in place.   Did we forget about the separation of church and state?  I guess these political jackasses forgot about that.  I’m done with this topic before I get heated and offend some people.
Much love,
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Me and Twitter

  Twitter and I are having a little bit of an issue.  See, there are certain limitations with twitter. You have to have a certain ratio of followers compared to people you can follow. After you’ve followed a certain amount of people, if you don’t have more followers you are hindered from following. Sometimes that can be very frustrating.
  Now, I understand that there are certain things in place to keep spam artists and fake accounts from spreading, however, it is a bit annoying and challenging. What is a guy like me to do?  Well, and I’m about to do some shameless plugging, but if you are on twitter and you follow this blog, you can follow me there at BlackMaleNudist (@BlackMaleNudist).  Hopefully I can return follows so people won’t think I’m a spammer or just one of those tweeters that don’t do anything but self promote and be self indulgent.
  Well You all have a great naked day,
BMN

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Are You a Prime Dinner?

   Whenever you hear of prime dinner what do you think of?  I think of a nice, yet expensive steak dinner.
  Well my question to you would be, do you consider yourself a prime dinner? How do you view yourself? Are you of high worth? Do you realize that you are wonderfully and fearfully made?
Something to think about for ya,
BMN

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Naked Yoga

    Well It’s a new start in life for me as I’ve started this blog. One of the starts for me is to try yoga…Nude of Course!!!! The reason being I want to de-stress and yet be in shape at the same time. Yoga gives your mind, body, and soul peace. Of course with Yoga you must use common sense. Don’t hurt yourself doing it. It is basically breathing and stretching. Yoga has many benefits. It can help alleviate insomnia, help with sexual health, and reduce anxiety. Yoga is also looked at as a strength training method you’re using your body weight to move from posture to posture and with some poses you are lifted every bit of it. I urge you to try yoga. You won’t regret it and be sure to do it NUDE!!!!
Love ya,
BMN

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